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Taking Care of your Anger

Taking Care of Your Anger

  January 31st Mindful Friday lesson was all about how to make safe choices and sit with your anger.  We read the story Ahn’s Anger, by Gail Silver and discussed what we could do when we felt this big and sometimes scary emotion.  In the story, Ahn is asked to “sit with his anger” in his bedroom by his grandfather after Ahn acts unkindly.  In his bedroom Ahn meets his anger personified as a scary, red monster.  His anger tries to persuade Ahn to go back downstairs and make unsafe choices, but Ahn suggests they stay upstairs—remembering his grandfather’s words.  Upstairs they dance, make howling noises, pound the floor, and spin wide circles together.  When they feel exhausted they sit together and take big, slow breaths.  Ahn notices that his anger begins to get smaller and less scary as they breathe together.  By the time grandfather goes upstairs to check on Ahn, his anger has disappeared altogether.  Feeling calm, Ahn apologizes to his grandfather and gives him a big hug.

  After the story we practiced how to take care of anger!  I brought out two balloons with angry faces drawn on them representing my anger.  The first balloon I did nothing to acknowledge or take care of my anger.  I blew it bigger, and bigger until it popped!  We all agreed that sometimes when our anger gets out of control and we “blow up” (hit, kick, yell in anger) it can feel scary!  The second balloon I filled with air and then took some big breaths with the balloon, letting a little bit of air out of the balloon with each breath until the balloon was small again.  That felt safe taking care of our anger, and not scary at all!

  I gave the kids their own “little anger” and we practiced a short sitting meditation holding our angers very still, and taking big breaths.  The red poof ball anger was a gift to the children this mindfulness lesson as a reminder that they can take space and big calming breaths with their anger whenever needed.

Mindfulness at Home

  What are some safe choices you can make when you feel angry?  Is there a special place in your own home that you can go when you need space to sit with your anger?  Having these discussions at home with your children helps set up a plan on what they can do when their anger shows face.  To help affirm these thoughts into action you could set up a special zone for the kids to go when they feel angry, (bedroom, closet, play tent) make it fun!  Role play a situation something that makes you feel angry, and then act out the safe choices.  When you are done with the big body playful side of taking care of your anger, practice resting and taking big breaths to put your anger to rest.  You could also journal/ draw with your child what your anger might look like, and safe choices you can make to take care of your anger when it arises.  It’s okay to feel angry!  We just need to remember to make safe, kind choices when feeling that big emotion!

Yoga on the Farm

Yoga on the Farm

  With the chilly weather outside we’ve all been craving more big body movement!  For Mindful Friday on January 24th we went upstairs for a special yoga day!  We read the story On the Farm, by David Elliot and incorporated a different yoga pose for each animal!  We arched our backs and crowed like roosters, wagged our tails and woofed in downward dog for the playful farm dog, twisted our bodies like a curly pigs tail, bucked and whinnied like ponies, took some restful breaths in turtle pose, and much more!  At the end of yoga we stretched out, said thank you to our bodies, and imagined the warm farm sunshine on our skin!

Mindfulness at Home

  What’s your favorite animal?  Kids love acting and pretending to be animals.  You can make up your own yoga, movement, or stretch pose to go with any kind of animal.  Let your kids make up their own yoga poses!  You might be surprised what they come up with. 🙂

Mindful Drinking Tea Time and Bat Breaths

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 Last week’s Mindful Friday fell after Halloween!  Since there are usually more tricks than treats at school the day after Halloween, we decided to keep things low key with tea!  The history of drinking tea dates back to ancient China, almost 5,000 years ago! According to legend, in 2732 B.C. Emperor Shen Nung discovered tea when leaves from a wild tree blew into his pot of boiling water. He was immediately interested in the pleasant scent of the resulting brew, and drank some. Legend says the Emperor described a warm feeling as he drank the intriguing brew, as if the liquid was investigating every part of his body.

 To nurture our curiosity, and decompress from the fast paced night before we had some mindful tea drinking time.  We started by holding our cups with two hands, and just noticing how it felt to hold our tea cups. The kids noticed it was warm on our hands.  We continued to move through our senses; smelling out tea, looking at the color and how the light reflected on the water, noticing if we could see our reflection, listening to hear if our tea made a noise, putting our faces above the cups to feel the heat on our face, noticing how the steamy air felt in our nostrils, blowing gently on the tea to feel how it changed the temperature and made ripples on the water.  We did all this and more before the tea even touched our lips!

 When our tea was cool enough to drink we started just by taking the smallest sip, and noticing how it felt on our lips and the taste that entered our mouth.  This batch of peppermint tea had a fair amount of honey in it, so the kids instantly noticed the tea’s sweetness at the tip of their tongue! They also noted that they could feel the tea on the insides of their cheeks, the roof of their mouth, and other places of the tongue.  As we swallowed we noticed the path the tea took down the back of our throats. Many of the kids said it made their throat feel warm and smooth. Others also noticed they could feel a warm, full feeling in their stomach.

 As a class we talked briefly about how drinking tea has been around as a practice for thousands of years, and how it connects us to the people of the past and our friends in the present.  We also acknowledged the work that the farmers, the bees, the tea packaging facility workers, and market put into making the tea available for me to buy at the store. We made sure to give a special thanks to all beings involved in making our tea time possible.

 A friendly bat visited our classroom to teach the kids how to do a “bat breath”.  We started with our “wings” down by our sides. Breathing in we gently raised both our hands up, breathing out we slowly flapped our wings back down again.  Just like a bat flies softly through the night, we took as many calm bat breaths as we needed. Lifting our arms up gently on the inhale, lowering them back down on the exhale.

Mindfulness at Home

Be a detective and have your own tea time at home!  See how many things you can notice about your tea in a scientific way.  All the sensory experience of tea without any of the judgement. It is also fun to try a variety of teas and see how they are different or similar!

A Quiet Place

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 Last week in mindfulness we talked about the importance of having “a quiet place”, and being able to go somewhere comfortable and calming when you feel overwhelmed or like you are needing some space.

 We started circle by reading the story A Quiet Place, by Douglas Wood.  In the story a boy describes when the world feels too loud he retreats to some quiet spots, and uses his imagination to take himself to calming spaces.  A bush turns into an island where he is a pirate digging for treasure, the forest he imagines himself as a gray wolf in the calm woods, the library a portal to many worlds at his fingertips with a good book, and many other magical places in his mind.  Lastly, but maybe the most important, his own bedroom an oasis for him to think his own thoughts, and feel his own feelings. At the end of the story we brainstormed all the places on our playground, our school, at parks, or in our homes that could be our quiet space. 

 After the story I offered the children some journaling time to draw where their quiet place might be.

 A friendly spider named Charlotte came out of hiding from one of her many quiet places to talk about how easy it is to find a quiet space.  In the classroom she climbed into a plant, hid behind a pumpkin, climbed up into her web, and even crawled under a kid to find a quiet place to relax.  Charlotte is a mother of many baby spiders, and she brought them to share with the children! The baby spiders were so tiny and fragile; the kids were asked to have very still bodies, and to hold them very gently.  Then everyone was invited to close their eyes, and imagine what their quiet place looked and felt like. This activity is a shortened version of a peaceful place meditation that promotes relaxation, and a sense of well-being while visiting that special, safe place in your mind.  After the meditation the kids shared what their quiet place was with their friends.

Fall Outside Games

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 Today we went outside for mindfulness and engaged in some autumn games and exploration!  I had four mindful games set up in the front lawn that helped foster gross motor development and attention focus.  The first game was leafy hide and seek. In two baskets I had some paint swatches and it was our job to find leaves of the same color.  When we looked closely and compared the leaves to the paint swatches we realized that they were more than just one color of orange, reds, or yellows.  The leaves were a wide range of maroons, tangerine, tan, peach, crimsons, and so much more.

 A plus side to this season’s early chill in the air is frost!  The ground was covered in a beautiful, delicate frost this morning.  The kids were armed with magnifying glasses so they could get a closer look at the crystalline frost on the leaves and grass.

 Another game available for the kids was pumpkin road!  There was an assortment of pumpkins in the front lawn for the kids to carry carefully while balancing on a rope laid on the ground.  This game is a variation of a walking meditation. The challenge is to walk slowly, and carefully attempting to touch both heels and toes of your feet on the rope.

 With the abundance of apples left over from apple day we incorporated them in a mindful balancing game!  Only using a large spoon, the kids had to scoop up the apples and carry them across the lawn from one basket to another.  If you were really good with one, you could try carrying two at a time!

 We learned a new way to take a breath that helps strengthen our torso muscles and diaphragm… a hot chocolate breath!  We all pretended that we had hot chocolate with the most delicious goodies inside. The hot chocolate is too hot to drink though, so we smell our hot chocolate and then say “It’s ha-ha-ha-ha- hot!” letting out our breath in small controlled bursts with each ha.  After doing that several times we take in a big slow breath, then blow on our hot chocolate slowly to cool it off. Now it’s ready to sip!

Fall Senses!

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This Friday in Mindfulness we tickled our senses with some fall sensory experiences!  I started Mindfulness by reading the story It’s Fall!  by Linda Glaser.  The story is chock full of words describing the sights, sounds, smells, and feels that are associated with the changing of the seasons.

After the story we had a “smelling circle”  where I shared different spices for the kids to smell that all induce feelings of warmth baking season.  Vanilla, cinnamon, cloves, cardamom, and coffee are just few that we passed around.  I encouraged the kids to use describing words of the smells, or challenged them to think of something that the smell reminded them of instead of just saying “good!”  The vanilla reminded a few friends of their mom, one kid of marshmallows, and another of the cookies with the cream in the middle.  When we smelled the cardamom one kid shared excitedly, “My grandma puts this in pancakes one time!”  Taking our time to smell all the different spices was also a sneaky was to slow down, focus on our breath, and notice where the air (and smells) enter our body.

To excite our sense of hearing I pulled our a basket with something inside and started rolling and shaking it around.  The basket had a lid on top so we could hear it, but not see what was making the noise.  This invited conversation around how we were feeling about hearing a noise and not knowing what was creating it.  We noticed that many of us felt curious, excited, and interested in knowing what was inside.  A couple of kids felt a little anxious and even a bit annoyed at not knowing.  We did our best to describe what the noise sounded like just using the clues that the noise had to offer.  What was it?  A basket full of nuts!  Everyone picked a nut out of the basket and we shared five characteristics of our little nut using our senses.

Another fall game that required our sense of touch… a pumpkin passing game!  The pumpkin was heavy, so we had to be careful with our motions and handling the pumpkin.  When we had the pumpkin the kids described how it felt.  The older kids played a round two of the pumpkin pass by closing their eyes while passing the pumpkin!  We had to be extra mindful of where our friends were and how we were handling the pumpkin without our sense of sight to help us. 

Mindfulness at Home
 Fall walks are a wonderful way to soak in the changing of the season.  Make it a game and see how many signs of fall you can find!  Maybe you see a squirrel gathering things to munch on, or newly fallen leaves on the ground.  Even the change of our wardrobe to warmer clothes is a clue that fall is here!

Mindful Eating: The Story of the Carrot

 Last week for mindfulness we read the story The Carrot Seed, by Ruth Krauss, and talked about how carrots start of as a tiny little seed, and then end up in our lunchboxes, dinner plates, and stomachs!  The kids all held and “planted” a tiny carrot seed and then recognized the necessary things that it needs to grow!  Water, sun, dirt, and pulling weeds around the carrots were all vital for them to grow strong and healthy. There is a lot of waiting involved, the little seeds don’t turn into carrots over night.  The sun rises and sets many days before the carrot’s green tops start to pop out of the ground.  The story doesn’t stop there though!  Once the carrots are full grown, a farmer has to harvest the carrots and send them on a truck to the grocery store or farmer’s market.  Families hungry for carrots take a trip to the store and pick out the carrots that they like best!  “Now can we eat the carrots?”  many kids asked eagerly.  Now that we knew the story of the carrot we turned on our senses to appreciate what the carrot has to offer us.  The kids described what they noticed about how the carrot looked, smelled and felt.  When it was time to eat the carrot slices we chewed them slowly, paying attention to the texture, taste, and any other sensations (where the carrot was traveling in our mouth, how the carrot crumbled in our teeth).  After all the talk of carrots a friendly rabbit hopped by to talk to the kids about bunny breaths!  Bunnies sit very still and listen intently with their long ears.  We practiced sitting still like a rabbit and listening to the sounds in our school.  When we were ready we took three energizing sniffs, and then exhaled nice and slow.

  Mindfulness at Home  Talk about your food!  Where did it come from?  You can help your child fill in the blanks of the story.  If you are eating applesauce you could discuss how the seeds in the apple could be planted to grow into a tree.  Once the tree is old enough to produce apples someone has to pick them.  The apples are picked and then sent to a factory where they are cooked and squashed into applesauce.  Then they are canned, ready to go to the store where they are bought by you!  Even better buy apples and make applesauce with your kiddos so they can see the magic happen.
  Having a hard time getting your kiddo to eat green bean or any other tricky foods?  Invite your child to be a scientist at the dinner table by noticing the attributes of your food (before you eat it!)  What color is it?  How does it smell?  What does it feel like between your fingers?  Did you know that your carrot makes a noise?!  Show your child that when you chew food and listen intently you hear the noise that it makes!  Eating food is an amazing, sensory tickling experience that we can turn into a fun family discussion!

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Anger Dragon Breaths

Hello friends!

Today in Mindfulness we talked about our anger, and what to do when our bodies are not being safe while angry. We also had a lot of discussion on what our faces and bodies look like when we are angry, and how we can tell if someone is angry by the clues their bodies show us.

We start circle by ringing the bell and taking a slow deep breath. When everyone is ready I pull out the story When Sophie Gets Angry, Really, Really Angry… by Molly Bang. Before we read the story I ask the kids if they have ever felt really, really angry, and we take some time to share personal stories of feeling angry. Then we look at the cover of the book and I ask the kids how they can tell that Sophie is angry. They note that her brow is furrowed, her nostrils flared, and her mouth is small and straight/frowning. We practice making our best angry face and then take a look at everyone’s face to notice how their facial features change when they are angry. We also talk about how our bodies might feel tense, our shoulders scrunched, our chest and stomach feel tight, how we might show our teeth, or clench our fists. As we read through the story we take time to talk about the triggers that made Sophie angry, which of her actions are safe, and why or why not. When getting to the part where Sophie runs to her space place
(it’s in the woods on an old beech tree) we talk about how her parents know where she is going. We also talk about how we can make plans with our parents and teachers to find space when we are feeling so angry. While Sophie is in her space place she is still and notices the things around her, pays close attention to what she hears, and to what sensations she feels on
her skin. When she feels calm, and her body is safe she goes back to her family where they greet her with open arms. After the story we have some more discussion on how Sophie calmed her body, how it’s okay to feel mad and sad, but it’s not okay to be unkind or aggressive when we are angry.

My friend baby dragon came to visit to share a story with the kids about a times that he felt so angry, and what he does to have a safe body. Baby dragon tells the story of how he is building a block tower and some of his friends knock it over. Boy, is he angry! He feels like scratching, kicking, and hitting his friends, but he knows that would hurt them and not solve the
problem. What should he do? Baby dragon takes a dragon breath (breaths in long and deep through his nose, and then lets out his breath by sticking out his tongue as long as it can go and making a “haaah” sound.), and finds some space in his cave. While in his cave he takes three dragon breaths. Then he looks around the room, listens to what he hears, sniffs the air, and
goes back to check in with his friends when his body and voice is calm and kind.

The kids had some journal time with the prompted question, “What makes them feel angry, how they might look or act when angry, or what safe choice could they make when feeling so angry?” Being angry can be a natural reaction to certain stimulus and is okay! By journaling about our anger we acknowledge that it is a feeling that arises in all of us, and affirms that we have the power to choose how to safely act when we feel angry.

Mindful Walking & Mindful Rough Play

This week in Mindfulness we turned on our ears and practiced listening!  We read the story A Listening Walk, by Paul Showers, and then took a stroll around our neighborhood.  Being in the midst of the city we have a plethora of noises all around us!  The kids noticed the sound our shoes made on the sidewalk, and how it was different from the noise it made on the grass.  One friend told me that her shoes made a scuff scuff noise on the sidewalk and a shww shww noise in the grass.  We also listened to the variety of noises the vehicle made passing by, different sounds made by birds, lawnmowers, voices of people, and so much more.  When we made it back to our gathering spot by the tree we shared what we heard on our walk.  We ended the lesson with a big breath with the bell, and a challenge to teach someone else at home!

Mindfulness at Home
  Create moments during the day, whether it is on a walk, in the car, at home, in the park, or etc…, where you turn of your voice and take the time to listen to whats around you.  We are often bombarded by sounds around us so often that we tune them out to focus.  Turn that around and see how many different noises you hear that are happening at once.
  Last week in Mindfulness we read The Story of Ferdinand, by Munroe Leaf.  In the story Ferdinand is perfectly happy sitting under his favorite cork and smelling the flowers.  We pretended to be little Ferdinand’s by sitting under the tree in the front yard of our school and taking big breaths.  I invited friends to try and sit very still with eyes open or closed.  After our Ferdinand sitting meditation we jumped up for some movement!  We played a game that helps out with communication and impulse control when our heart rate and adrenaline is higher.  To start the game the kids all started running around and playing like the bulls.  If they checked in with their friends first they could even push their heads together and rough play a bit.  This is great practice for mindful rough play, and checking to see what feels good or what doesn’t when using your whole body to play with your friends.  When I rang the bell the kids had to find a partner and talk to each other to connect in some way.  Elbows to elbow, head to head, holding hands, whatever they could think of.  Then they traveled back to the tree where I handed them a fake flower scented differently.  The kids sat down to smell the flowers and share with their friends what they thought they smelled like.  When they were ready they went back to the field to do it again!
Mindfulness at Home
Mindful rough play –  Skin to skin contact and safe rough play is normal and healthy!  Before playing rough have conversation around what feels safe and what doesn’t feel safe.  Set down some guidelines that everyone agrees on before you begin.  When playing rough and adrenaline is pumping it can be easy to forget to communicate.  The more you practice the easier it gets!  If you can practice playing rough and then stopping suddenly when you hear a cue or say stop that also helps with impulse control.
Stop to smell the flowers – Like Ferdinand, find your favorite spot to take the time to sit.  It can be for as long or short as you’d like.  Try to notice your breath by inhaling and exhaling deeply.  If you or your child need help remembering to breathe deeply you can have an item with your favorite scent to smell.